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Post by [.alyse.] on Dec 17, 2007 21:13:34 GMT -5
i vote we make a section. for everyone to just whine. cause i learned in seminary whinning is a good thing once in awhile. i want to whine so badly right now. I NEVER do i always look on the bright side of things. so here is my one moment of weakness where i get to complain about everything and none of you can say anything about it! my moment to be 5 years old!!! cause i act so much older then i really am its my turn to say what i want!!!
im sick and tired... of everytime i get some happiness in my life something comes out of no where and reuines it for me. im sick of trying my hardest in everything i do AND ITS NEVER GOOD ENOUGH! im never enough! im useless im sick of wanting to cry all the time. but hiding behind a smile im sick of following every commandment given unto me and never getting the blessings for them im sick of friends who cant notice how miserable i am all the time. im frustarded at the fact that the kid i freaken like is making life worse for me when i just want to be his friend. im sick of neevr having my prayers answers of ALWAYS looking on the freaken good side for everyone!! and get nothing back in return i want to be happy. i dont want to feel pain anymore. i want to be heard. out of the million people on earth im just one person whos voice isnt loud enough. i want to understand why i have to go through all this......
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Post by sakura on Dec 18, 2007 3:05:50 GMT -5
Hmmm yes whining does help.But it can get a bit annoying lol.
So this is a pllace we can whine?Ok fine!
There's not enough holiday! Hmph! lol
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Post by Kohaku on Dec 18, 2007 19:08:55 GMT -5
ugh tell me about it ... im barely passing about every single one of my classes ... its so frustrating... i wish there wasnt christmas ...cause for kids like me who parents are struggling to get food on the table everynight ... get nothing ... and when i get back from break everyone is going to ask me what i got ... it makes me want to cry just thinking about it... cause my family isnt getting anything for christmas ... i wish there really was a never land i'd never have to grow up never have to get a job never have to worry about school .... i know what its like to want to cry all the time alyse ... in fact i do cry most of the time ... except i hide behind a smile when im around people... and i know what you mean by not feeling like anything you do is good enough ... i mean i made supervisor at lagoon and i told my mom she didnt even care she was just like"oh thats cool" and then walked off ... my prayers are never anwsered either half the time i dont even bother to pray anymore ... i know thats bad ... im working on that ... and i would give anything for no more pain it seems like thats all thats there ...
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Post by hockeydude on Dec 18, 2007 23:17:34 GMT -5
You've really got a point, I've got a lot I could unload through whining right now.
Thing is, if I do, there's no way I'll make it to Friday alive. Or I'll just feel really awkward about it, because like Amber, I'm always hiding myself behind a laugh or smile or something.
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Post by sakura on Dec 19, 2007 2:56:52 GMT -5
I find myself not wanting to read this anymore..eh..hehehe...um...
I feel really fortunate for everything I have.I want nothing nor is there anything I need and I should be really grateful.
But how does the saying go again....funny first time I can't remeber it...something about smiling through the pain.....but we must always remember even if we are struggling there is always someone who is worse off.Who doesn't even know if the light of day will ever appear again.
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Post by [.alyse.] on Dec 20, 2007 17:47:54 GMT -5
i totally agree. THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE WORSE OFF!!! but im not kidding when i say whinning is healthy. it helps you realize why you are upset. sating what is making u miserable. is the next step to helping you realize how to fix it. and you should go to the lord with your problems. like moses. whinning is good. cause trust me.... keeping it inside and ignoring it..... helps no one!!!! you'll blow up one day. but yes.... always rememebr that it will work out. and that someone will always be worse off....
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Post by Kohaku on Dec 20, 2007 21:21:46 GMT -5
ya my last post on this thread helped alot ;D ... i didnt realize how much i was keeping inside ... there was more but i felt that thats the stuff i really needed out of my systems ... it feels good to just vent sometimes
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Post by sakura on Dec 21, 2007 6:39:10 GMT -5
Good!I'm glad!It really does help!
Remember a problem shared is a problem halved,happiness shared is happiness doubled.
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Post by Remove on Dec 21, 2007 15:12:49 GMT -5
i understand and im ur BFF (HHEHEHEEE). look around at the many things inn ur life. At leats ur not dead thats what i always SAY
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Post by sakura on Dec 22, 2007 2:34:18 GMT -5
Hmmm I don't think that's a really positive way to put it lizzy lol.
But things could be worse.And maybe if your friends don't notice it's because your not letting them.Ever considered telling one of your friends?It helps a lot if you talk to the right person.
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Post by Kohaku on Dec 22, 2007 9:47:15 GMT -5
trust me it does help ... i talked to one of my friends for like 4 hours last night about alot of stuff going on in my life that seem impossible to get through ... and trust me that helped me more then anything
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Post by sakura on Dec 22, 2007 9:53:51 GMT -5
Yup!It helps to just talk.Sometimes though one shouldn't talk...sometimes you don't want to...but most of the time it does wonders.
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Post by [.alyse.] on Dec 22, 2007 12:39:08 GMT -5
i dont quite follow.....??
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Post by Kohaku on Dec 22, 2007 19:19:39 GMT -5
neither do i ....
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Post by ldsgirl Aka Sayari on Dec 24, 2007 7:37:22 GMT -5
I think that what Sakura was saying is that sometimes a person just clams up and will not say what is bothering them. Amber, A million gifts can't buy love and happiness. We celebrate a modest Christmas in our house........no fancy gifts.....just a few inexpensive ones. I've learned to tune-out the Christmas braggards........besides they've lost the real reason for the season! PS: My complaint.....Until Saturday, I hadn't been sick in six years! Since it was the start of my Christmas vacation.....it really ticked me off!! There I feel better now! Actually I'm happy that it only lasted two days! ;D
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Post by sakura on Dec 24, 2007 12:41:27 GMT -5
Exactly what I was saying twin!But I also meant some people need some time before they talk......sorry I'm a little complicated sometimes lol
Your right Jenni!And I love the giving even if it isn't much it fills your heart with real joy not just passing joy!
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Post by ldsgirl Aka Sayari on Dec 27, 2007 8:19:06 GMT -5
Exactly what I was saying twin!But I also meant some people need some time before they talk......sorry I'm a little complicated sometimes lol Your right Jenni!And I love the giving even if it isn't much it fills your heart with real joy not just passing joy! Very well put Sakura!
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Post by sakura on Dec 27, 2007 14:37:38 GMT -5
Why thank you ;D
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Post by [.alyse.] on Dec 28, 2007 12:41:16 GMT -5
you gus im sorry for starting ths thread/ i seriously cant even tell you how angry and sad i was that day. and it just so happened i learned in seminary the day before that whinning is ok. and thats all i wanted to do cause thats all i NEVER do. and im just....sorry. my life hasnt been going as good as i hoped. but its getting better. love you guys!
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Post by Kohaku on Dec 28, 2007 13:08:11 GMT -5
its ok everyone needs to just whine sometimes:D
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Post by sakura on Dec 29, 2007 7:52:15 GMT -5
I agree with Amber.We don't care whine away! ;D
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Post by Kohaku on Dec 29, 2007 10:36:01 GMT -5
just not to much so that it gets out of hand
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Post by sakura on Dec 29, 2007 10:38:38 GMT -5
Yea...we might just get tired of it lol
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Post by [.alyse.] on Dec 29, 2007 12:50:39 GMT -5
hahaha don't worry about it i wont. its just after all the years...im finally getting help on something. and its not the way i want it cause im going to be losing a lot of things. and i was a little angery tords everything for awhile. but it is the best thing for me..even if i dont want it. but everything will be ok.
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Post by Kohaku on Dec 29, 2007 13:01:05 GMT -5
thats good to hear
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Post by [.alyse.] on Dec 29, 2007 13:06:40 GMT -5
better to hear it then to live it.
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Post by Kohaku on Dec 29, 2007 13:17:40 GMT -5
probably true but hey its life and we all have to live it
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Post by [.alyse.] on Dec 29, 2007 13:44:48 GMT -5
i truly cant wait for the 1000 years without temptation. where everything is perfect....
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Post by Kohaku on Dec 29, 2007 14:02:11 GMT -5
Me to
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Post by Admin on Dec 30, 2007 20:09:52 GMT -5
You guys, I truly am just SO happy to see this thread!! You are 100% CORRECT, Alyse! Whining is GREAT. I think that it is a very positive thing to have something like this, where people can just let it all out, you know? It could make the whole environment better, because people don't have to act like everything is alright. They can let it all out on one board, and then be more happy and relaxed- which makes the other boards more positive! Everyone needs an outlet- It really would be nice to have one for people here.. I may just make a Let-it-out board or something...
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