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Post by Equinox3100 on Apr 19, 2010 17:46:57 GMT -5
wondering why some people think that they need to change to get people to like them, when in reality there is at least one person that will like them for who they are......... Attachments:
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Post by hockeydude on Apr 19, 2010 17:53:30 GMT -5
Generally when people feel the need to change it's because their self-confidence isn't very high. And when their confidence isn't very high they're not always themselves around other people. And when they're not themselves around other people it's no wonder hey may not bring in the response they want. It's kind of a cycle like that.
I've seen the extremes, people everyone wants to be like except that person and the opposite. It's all a matter of self-confidence in my opinion.
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Post by Equinox3100 on Apr 19, 2010 18:25:15 GMT -5
hmm... do they realize that sometimes it hurts the people around them? And then there are the people that I wonder why they feel the need to show off in front of their "buddies", even if it means losing a good friend..
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Post by shadow on Apr 19, 2010 20:20:30 GMT -5
its all about short term gain, they dont think about the long run
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Post by Michael on Apr 19, 2010 21:50:10 GMT -5
wondering why some people think that they need to change to get people to like them, when in reality there is at least one person that will like them for who they are......... I'm going to learn to play gutiar, going to write songs and sing while playing them Is that changing for ppl?... I want to do it cuz I want to be differnet in some way- be cool I guess.. but I just want to do it for fun.. so idk
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Post by Equinox3100 on Apr 20, 2010 10:03:36 GMT -5
wondering why some people think that they need to change to get people to like them, when in reality there is at least one person that will like them for who they are......... I'm going to learn to play gutiar, going to write songs and sing while playing them Is that changing for ppl?... I want to do it cuz I want to be differnet in some way- be cool I guess.. but I just want to do it for fun.. so idk That's not what I mean, you're changing because you WANT to, and if it makes you cooler in the long run, it just happens that way, you're not trying to act different or fake your personallity!
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Post by Equinox3100 on Apr 20, 2010 10:04:03 GMT -5
its all about short term gain, they dont think about the long run Well, I think people like that are Idiots!
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Post by Michael on Apr 20, 2010 14:20:27 GMT -5
oh, okay then.
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Post by Equinox3100 on Apr 20, 2010 15:55:48 GMT -5
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