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Post by Michael on May 10, 2010 1:05:06 GMT -5
Okay, checking one more off the list I guess?... me and Daniel aren't friends anymore..
I knew he would find out sooner or later about me sending a msg to his brother... and grandmother about him wanting to kill himself.. It feels like I can't keep a good friendship.. cuz I'm overly caring?.... fine.. not all friendships.. seeing I still got some from church..... some... few..
Him:who in the hell do u think u are? dont u ever...EVER..message any of my facebook friends or any of my family ever again. it is not ur place to "inform" them of anything that goes on in my life.
Me:Daniel, you got to understand... I had to do it, when any friend of mine is in trouble with anything I try with all my might to help them out. seeing I couldn't be there to help you I msg your brother.
Yes I had thoughts that this would happen.. and i'm sorry, if you don't want to still be friends, I understand..
Him:darn u...who all did u message and what did u say? i wanna know it all...and dont u know that u've wrecked what life i had left? now im gonna have to move out and everything...all bcuz u couldnt stay out of my darn business...all i asked u for was prayer. not for u to mess my life up more
Me:I told your brother, that's all. I just told your brother about our chats that's it.
sorry.
Him: oh really? really? then why did my granny call me and ask me about the message u sent her?
Me:Look, I sent the msgs a long time ago. Your grandmother didn't reply, so I thought she doesn't get on fb anymore. I'll just leavn you alone now.. but I will still be praying
Him:i want u to send me every message u sent out. and then just forget me. in fact..all u should remember is that u lost a friend bcuz u couldnt stay out of my business. and when u realize that...come talk to me then.
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Post by ldsgirl Aka Sayari on May 10, 2010 19:44:20 GMT -5
Okay, checking one more off the list I guess?... me and Daniel aren't friends anymore.. I knew he would find out sooner or later about me sending a msg to his brother... and grandmother about him wanting to kill himself.. It feels like I can't keep a good friendship.. cuz I'm overly caring?.... fine.. not all friendships.. seeing I still got some from church..... some... few.. Him:who in the hell do u think u are? dont u ever...EVER..message any of my facebook friends or any of my family ever again. it is not ur place to "inform" them of anything that goes on in my life. Me:Daniel, you got to understand... I had to do it, when any friend of mine is in trouble with anything I try with all my might to help them out. seeing I couldn't be there to help you I msg your brother. Yes I had thoughts that this would happen.. and i'm sorry, if you don't want to still be friends, I understand.. Him:darn u...who all did u message and what did u say? i wanna know it all...and dont u know that u've wrecked what life i had left? now im gonna have to move out and everything...all bcuz u couldnt stay out of my darn business...all i asked u for was prayer. not for u to mess my life up more Me:I told your brother, that's all. I just told your brother about our chats that's it. sorry. Him: oh really? really? then why did my granny call me and ask me about the message u sent her? Me:Look, I sent the msgs a long time ago. Your grandmother didn't reply, so I thought she doesn't get on fb anymore. I'll just leavn you alone now.. but I will still be praying Him:i want u to send me every message u sent out. and then just forget me. in fact..all u should remember is that u lost a friend bcuz u couldnt stay out of my business. and when u realize that...come talk to me then. Don't let it bother you Michael. I think that you did the right thing!
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Post by Jayda on May 10, 2010 19:57:10 GMT -5
Okay, checking one more off the list I guess?... me and Daniel aren't friends anymore.. I knew he would find out sooner or later about me sending a msg to his brother... and grandmother about him wanting to kill himself.. It feels like I can't keep a good friendship.. cuz I'm overly caring?.... fine.. not all friendships.. seeing I still got some from church..... some... few.. Him:who in the hell do u think u are? dont u ever...EVER..message any of my facebook friends or any of my family ever again. it is not ur place to "inform" them of anything that goes on in my life. Me:Daniel, you got to understand... I had to do it, when any friend of mine is in trouble with anything I try with all my might to help them out. seeing I couldn't be there to help you I msg your brother. Yes I had thoughts that this would happen.. and i'm sorry, if you don't want to still be friends, I understand.. Him:darn u...who all did u message and what did u say? i wanna know it all...and dont u know that u've wrecked what life i had left? now im gonna have to move out and everything...all bcuz u couldnt stay out of my darn business...all i asked u for was prayer. not for u to mess my life up more Me:I told your brother, that's all. I just told your brother about our chats that's it. sorry. Him: oh really? really? then why did my granny call me and ask me about the message u sent her? Me:Look, I sent the msgs a long time ago. Your grandmother didn't reply, so I thought she doesn't get on fb anymore. I'll just leavn you alone now.. but I will still be praying Him:i want u to send me every message u sent out. and then just forget me. in fact..all u should remember is that u lost a friend bcuz u couldnt stay out of my business. and when u realize that...come talk to me then. My gosh. He is not mature or kind enough to be your friend. I realize that this is hurting you, but I need to be a bit blunt. I'm not trying to offend/hurt you anymore than you already are. Here it goes. 1) If he treats you like that (like garbage and someone who doesn't care - which you DO) then they don't even deserve to be a part of your life. 2) Keep praying for him, regardless. Even if he's your "enemy" he still has problems, and God always says to pray for your enemies as well as your friends. I know that you probably still consider him a friend, but just keep praying for him and hopefully he'll come around. 3) He sounds like a major idiot. I seriously mean no offense, but who the heck treats someone like that, someone that cares about them that much? You were only doing the RIGHT thing, and if he's upset about it then he doesn't deserve you. PERIOD. You probably saved his life. 4) If he's telling someone about wanting to kill himself, specifically over the internet, he probably won't, or is exaggerating his feelings/depression. It's been proven, I'm pretty sure, that unless you seek the help from someone who can actually do something to aid you and keep you from harming/killing yourself then you're most likely seeking the attention. I've dealt with friends like this. The way he's acting screams to me that he's only looking for attention. You ruined his game, so now he's upset because he has everyone looking down his neck. 5) Don't worry too much. What he does is his choice and he'll have a consequence to it, whether or not it's good or bad. I definitely understand the pain and grief you must be going through, but that's one reason why I was blunt - for you to really see the truth someone has to lay it out plain and simple. You're strong and you have the gospel in your life. God doesn't give you anything that you can't handle. It'll be okay. What happens is supposed to happen. You definitely did the right thing, and if he really is a good friend and someone that you should bother yourself with he'll come back to you Of course, I don't know him, so I can't make a perfect judgment, but that's what I've gotten from everything I've read about him. I'm sorry that you're going through this. You don't deserve it. Keep praying, stay strong, and know that God is always there, through everything! We love you Michael, no matter what!
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Post by shadow on May 10, 2010 20:06:25 GMT -5
jerk
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Post by Michael on May 10, 2010 20:32:52 GMT -5
Okay, checking one more off the list I guess?... me and Daniel aren't friends anymore.. I knew he would find out sooner or later about me sending a msg to his brother... and grandmother about him wanting to kill himself.. It feels like I can't keep a good friendship.. cuz I'm overly caring?.... fine.. not all friendships.. seeing I still got some from church..... some... few.. Him:who in the hell do u think u are? dont u ever...EVER..message any of my facebook friends or any of my family ever again. it is not ur place to "inform" them of anything that goes on in my life. Me:Daniel, you got to understand... I had to do it, when any friend of mine is in trouble with anything I try with all my might to help them out. seeing I couldn't be there to help you I msg your brother. Yes I had thoughts that this would happen.. and i'm sorry, if you don't want to still be friends, I understand.. Him:darn u...who all did u message and what did u say? i wanna know it all...and dont u know that u've wrecked what life i had left? now im gonna have to move out and everything...all bcuz u couldnt stay out of my darn business...all i asked u for was prayer. not for u to mess my life up more Me:I told your brother, that's all. I just told your brother about our chats that's it. sorry. Him: oh really? really? then why did my granny call me and ask me about the message u sent her? Me:Look, I sent the msgs a long time ago. Your grandmother didn't reply, so I thought she doesn't get on fb anymore. I'll just leavn you alone now.. but I will still be praying Him:i want u to send me every message u sent out. and then just forget me. in fact..all u should remember is that u lost a friend bcuz u couldnt stay out of my business. and when u realize that...come talk to me then. My gosh. He is not mature or kind enough to be your friend. I realize that this is hurting you, but I need to be a bit blunt. I'm not trying to offend/hurt you anymore than you already are. Here it goes. 1) If he treats you like that (like garbage and someone who doesn't care - which you DO) then they don't even deserve to be a part of your life. 2) Keep praying for him, regardless. Even if he's your "enemy" he still has problems, and God always says to pray for your enemies as well as your friends. I know that you probably still consider him a friend, but just keep praying for him and hopefully he'll come around. 3) He sounds like a major idiot. I seriously mean no offense, but who the heck treats someone like that, someone that cares about them that much? You were only doing the RIGHT thing, and if he's upset about it then he doesn't deserve you. PERIOD. You probably saved his life. 4) If he's telling someone about wanting to kill himself, specifically over the internet, he probably won't, or is exaggerating his feelings/depression. It's been proven, I'm pretty sure, that unless you seek the help from someone who can actually do something to aid you and keep you from harming/killing yourself then you're most likely seeking the attention. I've dealt with friends like this. The way he's acting screams to me that he's only looking for attention. You ruined his game, so now he's upset because he has everyone looking down his neck. 5) Don't worry too much. What he does is his choice and he'll have a consequence to it, whether or not it's good or bad. I definitely understand the pain and grief you must be going through, but that's one reason why I was blunt - for you to really see the truth someone has to lay it out plain and simple. You're strong and you have the gospel in your life. God doesn't give you anything that you can't handle. It'll be okay. What happens is supposed to happen. You definitely did the right thing, and if he really is a good friend and someone that you should bother yourself with he'll come back to you Of course, I don't know him, so I can't make a perfect judgment, but that's what I've gotten from everything I've read about him. I'm sorry that you're going through this. You don't deserve it. Keep praying, stay strong, and know that God is always there, through everything! We love you Michael, no matter what! Thanks for being blunt.. I just hope things will get better for him.. even tho last night he was like that and ended friendship, I still prayed for him that night.. and will keep praying for him. lol and thanks with saying I don't deserve anything like this.
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Post by Jayda on May 11, 2010 14:18:24 GMT -5
You're welcome Michael You deserve much better than this. You're a great friend, and you telling the people that are actually in his life just proved that. If he doesn't want the kind of attention that suicide threatenings creates then he needs to not threaten to commit suicide, you know? You did the best thing that you could've done, and you were a true friend. Keep praying for him and hopefully, in one way or another, he'll come around! If he doesn't then know that this was supposed to happen and know that whatever happens to him has to Stay strong! It'll all turn out alright in the end.
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Post by Michael on May 11, 2010 15:09:36 GMT -5
Thanks!.
lol... I really want to talk to Aubrey lately... feel like she can help me out in someway.. I sent her a msg on fb.
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Post by Jayda on May 11, 2010 16:12:47 GMT -5
I hope she can help you!
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Post by Michael on May 11, 2010 17:21:10 GMT -5
Haha me too.
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Post by hockeydude on May 11, 2010 20:02:58 GMT -5
I think it'll be a temporary thing. Check my first post on the second page of your "....help...." thread. Pretty spot on, eh? But yeah like I said my guess is that he's in shock right now and will come around and realize he's being a jerk sometime. That time varies with people. You don't deserve a speck of what he said to you. You did what any good friend would do and made sure he didn't make a mistake. If he decides to hate you for that, then he's not worth your time. He told you he was going to kill himself and you CARED about HIM and did what you could to help. If he can't appreciate that then it's his fault and his loss. You're the better man in the picture, Michael.
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Post by Michael on May 12, 2010 1:10:29 GMT -5
Okay, thanks man
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Post by ambrahhrowsee on Jun 17, 2010 2:00:43 GMT -5
Okay, checking one more off the list I guess?... me and Daniel aren't friends anymore.. I knew he would find out sooner or later about me sending a msg to his brother... and grandmother about him wanting to kill himself.. It feels like I can't keep a good friendship.. cuz I'm overly caring?.... fine.. not all friendships.. seeing I still got some from church..... some... few.. Him:who in the hell do u think u are? dont u ever...EVER..message any of my facebook friends or any of my family ever again. it is not ur place to "inform" them of anything that goes on in my life. Me:Daniel, you got to understand... I had to do it, when any friend of mine is in trouble with anything I try with all my might to help them out. seeing I couldn't be there to help you I msg your brother. Yes I had thoughts that this would happen.. and i'm sorry, if you don't want to still be friends, I understand.. Him:darn u...who all did u message and what did u say? i wanna know it all...and dont u know that u've wrecked what life i had left? now im gonna have to move out and everything...all bcuz u couldnt stay out of my darn business...all i asked u for was prayer. not for u to mess my life up more Me:I told your brother, that's all. I just told your brother about our chats that's it. sorry. Him: oh really? really? then why did my granny call me and ask me about the message u sent her? Me:Look, I sent the msgs a long time ago. Your grandmother didn't reply, so I thought she doesn't get on fb anymore. I'll just leavn you alone now.. but I will still be praying Him:i want u to send me every message u sent out. and then just forget me. in fact..all u should remember is that u lost a friend bcuz u couldnt stay out of my business. and when u realize that...come talk to me then. well just pray for god to show him the straight and narrow path of righteousness
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